Ohh.. the age passes on so quickly.. you never know when you reach the silver / platinum of your life..
But spending dose many years of your life with your parents and siblings will surely make your heart cry the moment you think of leaving them.
Yes m talking of the moment which is quiet typical and unavoidable of every girl's life....m talking of that day when the girl officially parts from her dear ones.. with whom she spent the most beautiful ups and crappy downs of her life.. yes the day of her marriage...
So unwillingly and happily or unhappily and willingly she parts with dose..
But unofficially she never parts with them from her heart. her thoughts, her decisions,, no one knows she is ready or not to take big decisions of her life in future at her husband's place.. but she has to..
And thus, I find most of the girls today..... knowingly unknowingly... get attached to their maternals even after marriage...and continue chattering/sharing/fighting/deciding et al everyday on phones or weekly meetings from their busiest schedules.. :-)
I havent thought what would be my situation after marriage but i am really afraid to even think about those kinda future..
So.. just to see the other side of situation..
I asked my youngest sis....
"how would you feel when I no longer would be staying with you?"
I was deep down crying with the very thought of leaving...and went nostalgic...
But to my amazement..
she replied...
" I would certainly be owning a phone of mine, and would be disturbing you, troubling you everyday with calls. Dont worry"
I felt so relieved, so happy, so lucky.....
aah....
I love you my sis...
Surely would not like to leave...
But spending dose many years of your life with your parents and siblings will surely make your heart cry the moment you think of leaving them.
Yes m talking of the moment which is quiet typical and unavoidable of every girl's life....m talking of that day when the girl officially parts from her dear ones.. with whom she spent the most beautiful ups and crappy downs of her life.. yes the day of her marriage...
So unwillingly and happily or unhappily and willingly she parts with dose..
But unofficially she never parts with them from her heart. her thoughts, her decisions,, no one knows she is ready or not to take big decisions of her life in future at her husband's place.. but she has to..
And thus, I find most of the girls today..... knowingly unknowingly... get attached to their maternals even after marriage...and continue chattering/sharing/fighting/deciding et al everyday on phones or weekly meetings from their busiest schedules.. :-)
I havent thought what would be my situation after marriage but i am really afraid to even think about those kinda future..
So.. just to see the other side of situation..
I asked my youngest sis....
"how would you feel when I no longer would be staying with you?"
I was deep down crying with the very thought of leaving...and went nostalgic...
But to my amazement..
she replied...
" I would certainly be owning a phone of mine, and would be disturbing you, troubling you everyday with calls. Dont worry"
I felt so relieved, so happy, so lucky.....
aah....
I love you my sis...
Surely would not like to leave...
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